14 September 2008

SUCCESS in the CITY


the day has come and gone, and it has been incredibly inspiring and memorable ... the 2008 susan g. komen race for the cure is an amazing success! and in no small part thanks to your love, support, and effort!

although the weather is menacing in the forecasts, it is a gorgeous, sunny 90 degrees in central park today! 28,000 walkers and runners descend to be a part of this incredible community, eager to eradicate breast cancer once and for all - a sea of pink and white t-shirts, worn by men, women, and children of every imaginable background!

our day starts off early, in the ann taylor survivor café, a temporary pavilion set up in the middle of the park. we are greeted enthusiastically by dara richardson-heron MD, the CEO of the organization in new york, and the other key players who organize this event on all of our behalves. most of team jane's journey is on hand at this early hour, as is rabbi adler from our synagogue. special guests include my parents, sarah and arnie, who fly in stealthily without us knowing last night, to surprise our family - fantastic!!!

i am introduced to jayne jamison, the publisher of seventeen magazine, who is receiving the survivor award - congratulations! also on hand are cynthia nixon (sex and the city), deanna favre (wife of NY jets quarterback brett favre), and petra nemcova (supermodel). i am called upon by deanna, and receive a lovely introduction. i am attaching a copy of my preprared statement that i deliver to the crowd on hand (who cheer heartily - both embarrassing and thrilling!).

i am whisked away in a golf cart with deanna immediately following the presentation, to the race start location ... where i am introduced to maurice dubois, the CBS anchor, and am reintroduced to 'judge judy' (who is with at kas and sasha's wedding a few weeks ago!). stephen colbert of the colbert report is also there - funny!!!

finally, the rest of the team catches up with me, and off we go ... unbelievable! the park, the city, taken over by a huge group of people with a common cause!

an update - i am amongst the TOP TEN fundraisers for this event in new york this year - all thanks to you! the total stands at $14,267 - which can go even further as the final date for donations is 31 cctober 2008. the team has raised over $22,000 - making us one of the top teams (but not quite top ten yet - we'll get there!).

in addition to my remarks, I am happy to include a link to our pictures - hope you can visit! check it out by going to:
www.swedlerkomen.shutterfly.com

with much love and appreciation, harley
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from today's presentation:

dear friends:

one year ago, i find myself in rwanda, a volunteer architect designing a village for children orphaned by the 1994 genocide. rather than being filled with dread and despair, it is clear to me that the survivors of that horrific event carry hope, joy, and optimism with them. frantically busy during the day, i return to the comfort of my hotel in the evening, fascinated by the people that soldier on against all odds.

miles away from home, i sit diligently with my laptop, meticulously documenting what i am seeing, experiencing, feeling. strangely, in the heart of east africa, fatigued and perplexed, i find my voice in a daily blog. it evolves into my true and positive snapshot of life flourishing under the most adverse circumstances.

and so it goes with our family’s experience with breast cancer. i cannot possibly project how my first visit to rwanda will prepare me for events to follow. prior to my second scheduled trip, my wife jane is diagnosed. fear and panic set in immediately, and subside just as quickly. as both a physician and a patient, she decisively selects a path to follow. as she sets out to research, discuss, and weigh options for her treatment, i return to my trusty keyboard and starting tapping away. from the first day of jane’s journey, i know that all is not lost, that there is hope.

five days on, living with a new reality, i tell jane that i've started another blog. horrified, she protests vehemently, and despite enjoying my postings from the hills of kigali, she does not, most certainly not, relish the prospect of having her life become an open virtual book. i persevere, promising that post surgery and chemo, we will be able to keep our huge and global network of friends well informed of her progress. at a minimum, it means less phone calls to return. she finally, and wisely, relents.

through daily manifestos ushered out via cyberspace, i draw on the positive energy around us, and relegate negative moments to temporary insanity. as numerous physical indignities are heaped upon jane, i humorously notate the absurdity of the day’s events in trite rhyme, melancholic prose, skippy limericks ... all complimented by a bastion of whacky vignettes.

i humbly stand before you this morning, honored to receive the susan g. komen co-survivor award. i gratefully accept this distinction on behalf of all those who move forward graciously despite tremendous hardships. whether it be halfway around the world, or here in central park, i am thrilled to know that in some small way, my take on a difficult situation has touched, and possibly sustained others.

many thanks, and bravo!

11 September 2008

sam sung

okay, firstly, forget everything i said. we are in a race for the race - dollars baby, cold hard cash! oh, if only i were this ruthless in the business world! i have been amazed to see $13,000 come my way in the form of donations to susan g. komen for the cure! and, not only that ... i am part of team jane's journey, which in total has raised over $20,000 to date! not to be overly competitive, but i do happen to be the sixth most successful fundraiser for this event in the new york metro area! i'm on the heels of american express and ann taylor - watch out! by the way, just to make it real - jared reminds me that being sixth is like winning a double bronze (deflation!).

last night, jane and i are invited to a VIP reception at the time warner center at columbus circle. the event is the kick-off for the race for the cure on sunday, and is the start of city in pink (major new york landmarks illuminated in rose colored lights to commemorate awareness about breast cancer). the festivities are held at the samsung space - gorgeous! the room is lit in a star trek fashion, all glowing pink! man, there are a lot of ladies there! skyy vodka, wine flowing, many, many people - all there to pay tribute to those afflicted with breast cancer. the evening is a wonderful success, spirits are high as, despite the bad economy, there are record numbers of people participating on sunday (estimates are 26,000 to 28,000 walkers and runners!). our own team is comprised of 50 people, and based on the tally, you'd never know that there are economic woes! unbelievably, i alone have received gifts from 105 families and friends! bravo!

after cocktails, jane and i are starving, so in my three piece (new) suit [yes, H&M of course)] and her pink dress (tracey feith) we hop over to burger joint at the parker meridien - double patties and an order of fries - deadly, let's hope the clogged arteries don't prevent us from doing our lap in central park!!!

thankful for everyone's support and participation, truly a momentous occasion for us ... we have good reason to celebrate!

(hard to believe it's been seven years since september 11th - so disheartening)

08 September 2008

5K is nothing!

forget 5K, or even 10K! team JANE'S JOURNEY, ready for the susan g. komen race for the cure, stands at a remarkable 41 people today. we've raised over $12,000, with many more pledges rolling in. what an amazing tribute to the positive power of jane, and all of the women (and men) who live with breast cancer as a part of their life.

my own personal goal of raising $10,000 by friday (jane's birthday) is GOING TO BE MET! very exciting to see this much energy and passion (at minimum, a great diversion from the political conventions!). let's cross our fingers for a lovely day and a hugely successful event!

we continue to be impressed, inspired, and amazed - thanks to all of you!

to help with the process, please click HERE!

h

04 September 2008

cash, cash, cash

if only i were such a tycoon in the business world!

okay, it's all about the race. ten days to go and i'm in good shape - physically and financially speaking! my goal of raising $5K (for the 5K run!) has been met, so i'm going for double - $10,000 to be raised by next sunday, 14 september. please help spread the word! rob a bank! do some insider trading! whatever it takes (i plead the fifth, by the way, when you have your day in court!).

astonishing and amazing, i'm delighted that we are able to assist in bringing about more programs to heighten awareness and treatment of breast cancer. although i usually hate asking for funds (and never actually do it!), this is FUN!

THANKS!

03 September 2008

incredible!

not to beat a dead horse, but all of you supporting my fundraising efforts for the susan g. komen race (one week from sunday) are INCREDIBLE!

in the last twenty-four hours, we have raised (drum roll please) $4,000! that's an amazing feat, and i am truly honored by everyone's most sincere generosity.

i'll keep you posted and will be running as fast as my short legs will allow on 14 september!

h

02 September 2008

the race is on!

last evening i send out an email with an uncharacteristic appeal for financial support in my efforts to 'run breast cancer out of town'. i am almost immediately overwhelmed with people responding - emails, donations through the susan g. komen website, etc..

i cannot describe how humbling, inspiring, and amazing this is! particularly for someone who HATES to ask for money ... totally not my thing, but i DO feel strongly that this is an excellent opportunity to capitalize on the situation and hand and make a difference.

at this rate, team JANE'S JOURNEY promises to be one of the largest fundraising teams in the new york metropolitan area - quite an achievement. i offer up my most humble and sincere thanks to all for helping us through this past year, and inspiring us as we move ahead!

h

01 September 2008

labor day no way


the end of summer is always great. some lament the return to schedules, the school shopping, the college drop offs, the end of beach days.

i prefer to drop everything, and after a very intense summer, it's a welcome relief. the kids return home from camp (and continue to incessantly reminisce about every moment of their collective experience), and once the laundry is sifted through and packed away, it's time to play!

end of august weather is gorgeous - warm and dry (despite periodic katrina-like downpours) so the thought is: leave the beds, leave the kitchen, leave the school stuff, the mail, and most everything else. get outside! the kids tend to be at their loveliest: giddy, happy, free, easy, non-complaining, non-competitive, and up for anything. burgers in the city at 10pm? sure! a walk to kismet on fire island at 6pm? great!

this spontaneous and easy-going nature seems to set the perfect tone. yesterday, we head into our customary breakfast spot. we order, and continue to giggle. the kids are downright delicious, as is the friande and café creme. marlee looks straight at me to let me know that directly behind us, in tiny café gitane, is none other than david schwimmer, 'ross' of friends fame. when i ask her if she'd like to gently go over to introduce herself or request a photo with my newly purchased iphone, she insists that it would be rude to interrupt him. he's eating breakfast with a friend, and i am admonished by marlee for even entertaining such a thought on her behalf. yeahhhh!!! a real new yorker! i'm so proud ...

and why the iphone? yes, it's sleek, and as a long-time apple fan, it seems appropriate. however, i am actually goaded into the purchase after thursday's events. andi and i are guests of friends at a red sox - yankees game - basically, we find ourselves in the best seats at the house that ruth built, practically sitting on the field. A-rod and jeter are within whispering distance (no sign of madonna!). the game is spectacular, the weather gorgeous ... a perfect afternoon. all of the excitement occurs in the bottom of the ninth inning, and we leave en masse with, say, 50,000 other fans. the traffic - horrendous - and even leaving the parking lot is an exercise in patience (and futility!). finally, we are on our way, and i decide it's quicker to weave our way through the local streets of the bronx (never did read 'bonfire of the vanities'!). what do i do? i pull out (what andi characterizes as) a life-size map of the bronx. the three boys (whose cumulative age is still well below my own number of years) stare at me - equal parts disbelief and horror! have i ever heard of something called GPS? the following day, the purchase is made, so now i can make calls from abroad, and leap buildings with a single bound (not to mention actually use the damn thing to help me navigate!).

ahhhhh, summer. labor day, the last licks - ice cream, sand, nothing planned - we'll miss august!