Showing posts with label ethiopia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ethiopia. Show all posts

13 May 2008

spring in our step


ahh, a lovely and exhilarating day!

let's start from the finale, which really seemed to click with us. i am invited to attend a two day conference in the city for 'our' organization JDC (joint distribution committee). i am a guest of the board, and the symposiums are attended by about 200 people, intellects all beyond my own capabilities. at the end of the day, i have a lengthy discussion with hala moddelmog, the CEO of susan g. komen for the cure. i have the opportunity to have an intimate chat about optimism, hope, saline vs. gel, and new screening for women in tanzania and ghana. amazing!!! and a highlight - i share jane's story with this fascinating woman, who will be speaking tomorrow morning bright and early!

the event is held at the helmsley hotel on 42nd street. there is a large post-breakfast gathering, and anne heyman, the founder of our rwanda project, is on the panel. in addition to speaking about the efforts in rwamagana, she lauds my contribution to ASYV, very kind and encouraging. we are fortunate enough to have natalie portman, the movie starlet, traveling with a mission in a few weeks to kigali, where she will plant acacia trees at the entry to the site - amazing! additionally, manlio from JDC rome is there - my peer and confidant who is also working on our project and who works closely with the on-the-ground team in ethiopia. he asks me if i will give an architecture lecture in addis ababa in the fall to students who are recipients of grants for higher education ... YES!

jane, too, is appreciated - a number of people inform me how amazing and inspirational she is, both in her breast cancer 'battle' as well as for her contribution to the rwanda effort - she is assisting with AIDS prevention and teenage mental and physical wellness programs. we are so fortunate to have found this amazing organization, where we feel as if we are contributing to a real and tangible system which preserves jewish life, cultural identity, and also is vital for it's non-sectarian work.

i participate in break out groups discussing how best to assist far-flung jewish communities in the former soviet union. we talk about nutrition for impoverished israeli children and senior citizens. the day flies, totally fascinating. at the end of day cocktail and light dinner get together, we are addressed by the jerusalem post editor in chief, david horovitz. he is compelling, funny, and intense simultaneously. i meet hadassah lieberman, the partner of former vice-presidential candidate joe lieberman. i mingle with many at JDC who i have come to respect and admire for their commitment and dedication.

the sun shines, it's warm at last, and we end the day with thick slices of red velvet cake - mmmm!

30 March 2008

thinking ahead


as jane recuperates, we all begin to think ahead ... a future free of complications (is there such a thing???). gilda and morris talk about coming for a visit, as do my parents. we are thinking a bit about our upcoming trip to miami for passover, and about summer camp, and even a summer adventure (sadly, july and august are the rainy season in ethiopia, so that may be out for now). we discuss next february, perhaps a reconfigured trip to asia, or maybe brazil, south africa, argentina?

the point is, we are now measuring time and distance by different standards ... not by the next 'treatment', or surgery - no, now we are back to regular standard time. the parameters are once again school breaks, work schedules, and holidays - the good 'ol normal stuff. and what a relief!

today we enjoy breakfast in the city, as usual, but with the kids this time. we languish in the bookstore on prince street, go for a walk through chinatown (sunny but brisk), and make our way home for r&r mid-afternoon. last night we enjoy an middle-eastern movie with friends (the band's visit) and a delicious dinner out ... so much fun, so normal and relaxed.

we do have one step next monday, a week from tomorrow - jane's reconstructive surgery, which is more of a 'procedure' than anything, and they're predicting that she'll be out and about the day after ... so it's all good. another blip on life's radar (and hopefully nothing more than that). what's nice is that she'll be 'done' by the time we leave for passover ...

the journey continues, and expands ...

27 February 2008

pret a porter



would you believe, it's the car in the shop -
the mini again, oh when will it stop?
we called up vw, said 'one beetle please',
the cooper has really brought us to our knees!

first it caused cancer, of that we are sure,
now motors for wiper blades, that is the cure -
so goodbye dear bad luck charm, hope that we're through,
and with a volkswagen all that's old will be new ...

jane is okay, and feeling quite well,
she's eager for next week, of that i can tell -
for chemo to finish, and be on her way ...
she's definitely looking beyond that friday -

out at the theater with marlee and friends,
a girls night passes, then home in a benz,
legally blonde tonight, and then another,
on saturday with more young gals (and no brothers)

so the boys, we are left to fend for ourselves,
out to a french bistro with wine on the shelves -
some frisée and frites, and good mustard too,
some lamb for dear andi, that cost thirty-two!

we laugh and we chat, while the ladies do play,
and then onto rite-aid for snacks, by the way,
we boys cozied up, all lying on one bed,
to watch bourne identity (all characters - dead!)

jane sees that i am slowing going insane,
and says to me 'why don't you get on a plane'
to paris, you'll go - you could leave tomorrow,
and then you will not be feeling all full of sorrow -

i think about it, make myself well - by the seine,
and then i think about the plan once again,
with air france there's flights, as that's there forté,
too bad that this weekend's the pret a porter ...

not a room to be had, a pity for sure,
so i guess i'll stay home and help with the cure,
a trip we will take, perhaps in the summer,
when we feel as if we're not deep in a bummer

to addis ababa? ethiopian jews?
or cairo and luxor, to see ancient views?
a drive deep in napa, or marfa's artworks,
perhaps back to istanbul, visiting turks!

so good night, my dear friend,
we're nearing the end -
we wish you our best,
and please, get some rest!