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14 May 2008

breast biopsy in bosnia


today i am exposed to something new and interesting. joint distribution committee (JDC), in concert with susan g. komen for the cure, is running a program for breast cancer awareness, screening, advocacy, and treatment in bosnia and herzegovina. this pilot project is having great success in changing existing attitudes and stigmas surrounding this disease, while targeting the government with the aim of forcing more accessible and universal help in this arena. prior to this initiative, which is being replicated in other areas (former soviet union), women who underwent mastectomy were eligible for one, yes ONE, implant (not two!) ... and that is if they were able to secure an early diagnosis, and get treatment, and survive the disease!

it is incredible to hear from the leadership of susan g. komen. this amazing organization runs a tight ship, relying on professional staff, passion, and grass roots efforts to fight (and end) breast cancer. the global ambassador for this battle is hadassah lieberman, the partner of joe lieberman. today she speaks frankly and eloquently to a small focus group during lunch - she is moved to be addressing JDC, as her parents survived the holocaust and were themselves recipients of JDC aid. she speaks thoughtfully of coming full circle, back to what her parents called 'the joint' - and how touched she is to be at this gathering. she is an excellent spokesperson for this cause, and hala moddelmog likewise moves people with her candid and wise speech. both of these inspiring women congratulate me on my efforts on behalf of the orphans in rwanda, and i am truly humbled, feeling as though i am 'a baby' relative to their ongoing accomplishments. we discuss possibilities for further partnership, and this is something that jane and i feel a synergy for ... we'd love further our work with JDC and also tie it back to susan g. komen for the cure.

as an aside, many people attending the meetings of the past two days are enthralled with the project in rwanda. the parallels between the genocidal fate of this african nation, and the holocaust suffered by jews, gypsies, homosexuals, intellectuals, and the righteous, is not lost on anyone. it is critical, as jews, as victims, to further secure and protect and harbor and eradicate and rally against evil manifesting itself. we, more than any other group, must stand up for what is morally correct, and have an obligation to give of ourselves when things run amok (as they most often due with human nature). additionally, there are similarities between the state of rwanda and the state of israel - both tiny, both young, both building up from ashes. today, paul kagame, the president of this minuscule east african nation, celebrates the 60th anniversary of israel's independence in jerusalem - amazing!

so, a new chapter begins. i am not certain how it will come to be, but jane and i have swung onto a new vine. just at the moment, the instant, when she is healed and back to herself, when we have had the opportunity to regroup as a family, reconnect with our former lives, we have a new cause to champion and be a part of. we're ready for this, and feel blessed that it has come into our lives at just the right time!

17 December 2007

catch cold


jane and i chat with a video link - she: at home, lamenting over gilda's cancelled trip; me: in kigali about to keel over from jet lag.

jane
is cold in new york - it's frigid there, actually. i, on the other hand, am suffering from an intense sunburn earned at the construction site for the asyv village i am working on, deep in the heart of rwanda not too far from the border with tanzania.

despite my best attempts at feigning pain, i get no sympathy from my dear spouse (not to mention the kids, who pop in and out of the screen). it's great to see jane, enjoying a couple of days off (sans her dear friend) - i fear she's spending this time doing laundry, opening mail, and cleaning bathrooms, so i push her to venture into the city tomorrow as planned. have lunch and go shopping!

my parents will soon join her in long island (to 'nurse' her), and will stay through marlee's birthday (x-mas day), by which time i'll be back to take care of jane. although frankly, she's doing so well, i may be phased out of my job ... now wouldn't that be nice for all of us!

thinking of healing, from this side of the world ...

09 December 2007

help me, rwanda


"i wish i could put a basket made in rwanda in the home of every american. made by the rwandans that are part of these reconciliation cooperatives, where hutus and tutsis are now living together, working together, and making their baskets together. here are people who've been through things that no american will ever know. and they've concluded, after being humbled by their own rage and the pain of their losses, that what we have in common is so much more important than our differences. i think that would be the greatest gift you could ever give to america."

-president bill clinton, when asked which single gift from abroad he would give to his own culture

so, in light of the good news that jane has received to date, and the fact that we are in a holding pattern for two weeks (waiting on tests), we make a decision. i will leave this week for rwanda, as planned, to continue my work on the village which is rising from the hills of rwamagana ... a home which will shelter, inspire, teach, and nurture 500 orphans from the genocide which tore this east african nation apart in 1994.

i am reluctant to go at this time, but jane's energy, positive attitude, and guarded optimism give me the resolve to see this work through. i hear her say constantly 'how much worse off things could be'. amazing. here is a woman, just a couple of weeks after life-changing surgery concluding that she has it pretty good!

so off i go ... to the heart of africa, to be inspired on another level, knowing that jane will be well taken care of. gilda is flying in from montreal for some 'bff' time, followed by my parents with chicken soup and smothering love! so i'll muddle through (despite jane's teasing that i have to run away to sub-saharan africa for a 'break' - crazy!), and will do my work, drink my muetzig beer, and hopefully help to repair the world!

we send all of you a proverbial rwandan basket!